It’s a high school and college party staple, plus middle-aged folks still use it as a dating icebreaker or party game among friends.
Traditionally, Never Have I Ever involves lots and lots of drinking, but variations have popped up over the years to accommodate sober folks and those with varying vices.
Today, we’re looking at different ways to play the classic getting-to-know-you quiz, emphasizing couples’ Never Have I Ever questions.
How Do You Play Never Have I Ever Couple Questions
Never played Never Have I Ever?
Don’t worry: You’re not alone. Besides, it’s easy.
Here’s how to play:
1. You need at least two people to play Never Have I Ever.
2. Shoot rock-scissors-paper to see who goes first — or flip a coin.
3. The winner makes a statement that starts with “never have I ever.” For example, the person may say, “Never have I ever worn a green shirt.”
4. At that point, everyone playing the game who HAS worn a green shirt at least once in their lives would take a sip of their drink. People who’d never worn a green shirt would NOT take a sip.
5. In other words: If you have done the thing the questioner says, you drink. If you haven’t, you don’t.
6. Then, keep going around the room and give everyone a chance to ask a “question.”
7. Once everyone has gone, start another round!
We’ll be blunt: The point is to ask saucy, borderline “smutty” questions. Things typically start nice and easy, but by round 10, when the liquor is flowing freely, people start throwing around their skeletons for all to see!
If you want to play but don’t drink, make a substitution. Alternatives to taking a sip of alcohol include:
Taking a “hit” from a joint or bong (in states where recreational cannabis is legal)
Eating a piece of cake or another sugary dessert
Doing a pushup, situp, or squat
Sipping on a non-alcoholic beverage
Eating Sour Patch Kids — or other equally sour — candies
Strip Never Have I Ever (every time you have done something, off comes a piece of clothing)
105 Fun And Juicy Never Have I Ever Questions For Couples
Never Have I Ever can be a dangerous game! So if you don’t want the evening to devolve into an explosive melee — Real Housewives-style — read the room before throwing out questions.
Try not to cross the line for the company at hand. For example, questions you’d ask a spouse of 20 years will be much different than ones you whip out on a first date or work-related dinner party.
Our Never Have I Ever question list combines deeply personal and light-hearted queries.
We hope you find some gems in the mix that are perfect for your situation.
Never Have I Ever Relationship Questions
1. Never have I ever been hated by my partner’s parents.
2. Never have I ever had a crush on two people at once.
3. Never have I ever regretted saying “I love you” to someone.
4. Never have I ever talked to a stranger about life or the meaning of existence.
5. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend’s partner.
6. Never have I ever cheated on a partner.
7. Never have I ever had sex in public.
8. Never have I ever been in love with two romantic partners simultaneously.
9. Never have I ever asked someone to marry me.
10. Never have I ever had a crush on someone of the same gender as myself.
11. Never have I ever told a massive lie to someone I’m dating.
12. Never have I ever stayed with someone because I felt terrible for them.
13. Never have I ever been in a serious relationship with someone of another race or ethnicity.
14. Never have I ever traveled over 1,000 miles to see someone on a whim.
15. Never have I ever had sex with a stranger.
16. Never have I ever been in a serious relationship with someone with opposing politics.
17. Never have I ever dated two siblings at different times.
18. Never have I ever dated a second or third cousin.
19. Never have I ever had a secret lover.
20. Never have I ever been married.
21. Never have I ever dated someone only for their professional connections.
22. Never have I ever used Tinder / Grindr for a hookup.
23. Never have I ever dated someone I regretted dating.
24. Never have I ever dated a criminal.
25. Never have I ever committed a crime with my partner.
26. Never have I ever forgotten my long-term partner’s birthday.
27. Never have I ever dated someone for more than a year.
Never Have I Ever Questions for Boyfriend
28. Never have I ever had a one-night stand.
29. Never have I ever broken a promise.
30. Never have I ever called someone the wrong name on a date.
31. Never have I ever cheated on a girlfriend.
32. Never have I ever kissed another guy.
33. Never have I ever stolen something from a store.
34. Never have I ever been arrested.
35. Never have I ever been skinny dipping.
36. Never have I ever read a book on my own.
37. Never have I ever cheated on a partner with one of their parents.
38. Never have I ever paid for sex.
39. Never have I ever dressed up as a woman.
40. Never have I ever pledged a fraternity or secret society.
41. Never have I ever watched “Scarface” fewer than five times.
42. Never have I ever told a lie to impress a potential partner.
43. Never have I ever lied on a resume.
44. Never have I ever been horseback riding.
45. Never have I ever tried a psychedelic drug.
46. Never have I ever gotten someone pregnant.
47. Never have I ever exchanged sexual favors for illegal drugs.
48. Never have I ever cried when someone dumped me.
49. Never have I ever taken a “pick-up” class or other “manosphere” course.
50. Never have I ever fallen in love at first sight.
51. Never have I ever secretly recorded intimate moments.
52. Never have I ever sexted with someone.
53. Never have I ever watched porn with my partner.
54. Never have I ever taken a “shower selfie.”
55. Never have I ever ghosted someone after sleeping with them.
56. Never have I ever driven over two hours to see someone for just 15 minutes.
57. Never have I ever lied about someone’s performance in bed.
58. Never have I ever set out on a long-haul train journey.
59. Never have I ever sent a handwritten love letter/an anonymous love confession letter.
60. Never have I ever pledged a sorority or secret society.
61. Never have I ever had a one-night stand with a complete stranger.
62. Never have I ever slept with one of my friend’s partners.
63. Never have I ever made a sex tape.
64. Never have I ever had an Only Fans page.
65. Never have I ever cheated on a boyfriend with his sister.
66. Never have I ever dated someone only for their money.
67. Never have I ever slept with someone over 20 years older than me.
68. Never have I ever bared my breasts for Mardis Gras beads.
69. Never have I ever pretended to be dumber than I am so as not to embarrass a potential partner.
70. Never have I ever purposefully dated someone who was not as bright as me.
71. Never have I ever asked someone to marry me.
72. Never have I ever lied and told someone I had a kid to get rid of them.
73. Never have I ever had an open relationship.
74. Never have I ever stalked an ex on social media.
75. Never have I ever wanted children.
76. Never have I ever bought a sex toy.
77. Never have I ever given someone the wrong phone number.
78. Never have I ever lied about my age.
79. Never have I ever been with someone who was 15 years or more younger than me.
80.Never have I ever slept with two people in one night.
81. Never have I ever owned a Kama Sutra.
Never Have I Ever Kissing Questions
82. Never have I ever kissed someone.
83. Never have I ever kissed in the rain.
84. Never have I ever stopped an elevator to make out with someone in it.
85. Never have I ever kissed a teacher, professor, or boss.
86. Never have I ever made out with someone in the middle of a restaurant.
87. Never have I ever kissed someone in the back of a taxi.
88. Never have I ever been told I was a lousy kisser.
89. Never have I ever kissed someone in a church, mosque, temple, synagogue, covenstead, or other religious building.
90. Never have I ever knowingly had bad breath when I kissed someone.
91. Never have I ever told someone they were a terrible kisser.
92. Never have I ever kissed a doll or pillow to practice.
93. Never have I ever let someone go to “second base” when kissing.
94. Never have I ever let someone kiss me below my waist.
95. Never have I ever given someone a love bite.
96. Never have I ever kissed someone on the first date.
97. Never have I ever kissed more than ten people.
98. Never have I ever kissed on a beach.
99. Never have I ever kissed one of my siblings’ friends.
100. Never have I ever kissed one of my parents’ friends.
101. Never have I ever had a sloppy kiss?
102. Never have I ever kissed someone blindfolded.
103. Never have I ever kissed on a nude beach.
104. Never have I ever french kissed someone of the same gender.
105. Never have I ever played spin the bottle.
Never Have I Never is a rite of passage. You’ve got to try it at least once. Try not to take it too personally — and always aim to keep the questions appropriate for the party.
