As a Clinical Psychologist who has worked with families for more than 20 years, I was immediately drawn into the Gottman Method because it aligned with my strong belief that our stories are critical pieces to understanding and being understood. Griots: The storytellers In African traditions, storytellers were called “Griots,” and they were often the…
This article originally was published by the Child Mind Institute “I was worried about my parents not accepting me for who I am,” recalls Katie Green, who identifies as queer and came out to her family in her early twenties. “I was worried they would stop loving me.” Green’s worries are echoed by many LGBTQ…
Are you looking for a way to spice up your honeymoon or anniversary vacation? Have you thought about trying healthy water activities? There are many types of watersports; some get your adrenaline pumping, while others are suitable for calm sunsets. Here is a sneak peek into top-water sports that you can try with your partner…
An ageless riddle The question of love at first sight has been the ageless riddle, ever being the subject of many debates over the centuries. Many believe in it unconditionally. Others believe just as unequivocally that it’s all a lot of nonsense. There are certainly reasons that can be presented by either side to show…
Love O Love You know you’re very much love. The two of you couldn’t be happier. But there are times when you fear it might not last, or that the love may fade away. Well, fret not, I have charted out a list of simple and effective techniques to make your relationship last longer and…
Your romantic love yacht Given all the songs about love, it seems that a romantic relationship will experience some thorny issues in the bedroom. It’s also possible that a relationship will begin even before that happens. The small, little irritations that could potentially sink your love life are what I shall call setbacks in your…
This June 2021, my partner and I celebrate our 16th anniversary together. That’s no small feat today. The even wilder part about our relationship is that we met on social media. We didn’t meet on Tinder. There was no “swiping right” in 2005. We didn’t meet on Facebook or even MySpace. I met my partner…
What’s the one thing happy couples do the most? Most couples do not break up because of significant events like infidelity. It’s the erosion of trust and build-up of resentment over time that turns love into disaster. So what can you do to keep your relationship headed in the right direction? Learn more about the…
Choosing which theory to utilize when working with couples not only needs to reflect the personality and competence of the clinician, but it also needs to be of value and serve the needs of the client. They deserve to know their clinician vetted the theory. They want to trust that the chosen interventions reflect the…
It’s a lazy Sunday morning. The kids are away. You wake up, enjoy a luxurious stretch, and then you lovingly reach for your tablet instead of your partner. Remember when you first shared a bed with the person you desired? Back then when you drifted up to consciousness, you’d immediately notice the warmth of your…