Over time the romantic spark that was so bright when you and your husband got married can start to dim. Many factors contribute to this loss of romance, and unfortunately, it may result in diminished intimacy and an aversion to being touched. What do you do when you find yourself thinking, “I hate being touched…
If you’re looking for something to talk about, few things are as useful as knowing the other person’s random likes and dislikes — particularly those you share with them. “So, I hear you have a special love for bees.” And you’re off and running. This could be the start of a unique and lasting friendship. …
If you’re here wondering how to end a long-term relationship, then chances are your love life no longer aligns with the woman you are today. But ending a relationship that has spanned years or decades—and potentially involves a mortgage, wedding vows, and kids—is not a decision you can make lightly. But although ending a long-term…
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“I turned 60 last week,” I said, as I lay on my back on the Pilates reformer, to anyone in the class who might be listening. I don’t know why I said it out loud. I usually don’t talk at all in class. But the truth was, I was struggling with this “milestone” birthday. I…
When I’m interviewed, or meeting new people, I’m often asked for my “best tips” about productivity, time management and stress relief. And one of my frequent answers is to plan for tomorrow, today. That is, by the time you end your workday, spend a small amount of time making a realistic plan for tomorrow. Why…
I used to feel proud to say, “I’m a bit of a perfectionist.” That was until I realized my drive for perfection was less about the pursuit of excellence and more about my fear of being judged. Fear of being judged for not looking smart enough, being good enough, or being successful enough. My relentless…
Soon after I had my first child, I started drifting away from my childless friends. When they asked me to go to the movies, meet up for dinner, or get a drink at a new coffee shop, I almost always said no. When they told me tales of first dates both good and bad, I…
Change is undoubtedly the only constant in life. Sure, there was a time when it was typical to spend a lifetime working in the same company. Times have changed, however, and there is a world of opportunities out there. If you no longer find joy and excitement in your daily job, it is perfectly normal…
Understand that success is finding happiness rather than monetary gain. I’ve been fortunate to travel all over the world and live abroad. I’ve lived with individuals who were incredibly poor, even from a third-world standpoint. Yet, many of those individuals are just as happy as we are here in the most abundant society the world…
