25 Sex Toys To Try With Your Partner ASAP

I’ve been writing about and testing sex toys for years, and I’ve learned firsthand that just about any sex toy can be a couple’s sex toy.

Right up there with trying new sex positions and incorporating dirty talk, sex toys help couples enhance intimacy and deepen their connection—but not all toys are created equal. That’s why we tapped sex therapists and experts to share their favorite sex toys for couples to try in 2024.

Whether you want a handheld vibrator, a wearable device, or a game to bring you and your partner closer, our curated list is packed with 25 expert-approved sex toys that are all easy to use, safe, and guaranteed to bring your sex life to the next level.

The best sex toys for couples

This wearable couple’s vibrator earned a spot on our list because it is not only expert-approved and has rave reviews, but it’s customizable, easy to use, and made with high-quality, body-safe materials. In other words, it checks all our boxes.

The We-Vibe unit has a single-button remote, five vibration modes (pulse, wave, cha-cha, tease, and ramp), and low, medium, or high-intensity settings. This hands-free device is pleasurable for everyone involved.

This popular G-spot vibrator has amassed hundreds of reviews from shoppers who rave about its ability to “hit just the right spot.” While it’s made for internal G-spot stimulation, the Arc’s sleek, arched design plays double-duty as a clit stimulator when used externally.

Bonus: The medical-grade silicone is velvety soft, and the device is whisper-quiet.

Not only is this rabbit vibrator app- and remote-controlled, but you can bundle it with another Nora, or a Max 2 for penises, so you and your partner can enjoy playtime from afar (or in the same room, if you’re into that).

The Nora has dual stimulation for G-spot and clitoral orgasms, and it can be controlled from any distance (another LDR essential!). The angled, rippled shaft rotates in two directions, making it easier to reach and explore your internal pleasure spots.

This wearable is made for vaginal insertion, but it has a clitoral piece shaped like a “U” that stimulates. There’s also a piece that gets inserted and vibrates. In other words, this toy is extremely versatile—and it meets all of our criteria.

The Tiani 2 is made with matte body-safe silicone that feels super soft against the skin, plus it’s easy to use, exceptionally quiet (50 dB on its highest setting), and undeniably intense. With eight powerful pleasure settings with varying intensities, this device is extremely customizable.

Many people with penises love using cock rings as a masturbatory aid—but they’re a great tool for couples during sex as well. These textured, vibrating double cock rings stimulate the shaft and testicles simultaneously to seriously increase pleasure.

Psychotherapist and board-certified clinical sexologist, Joe Kort, Ph.D., LMSW, previously told mindbodygreen, “These penis rings can give you multiple orgasms by trapping blood flow in your shaft.” What’s more, you can use the bullet vibrator on its own—so this is really two sex toys for the price of one.

Those new to the world of penis rings will love this sleek, tiny band. Maude’s band sets itself apart from a more traditional ring by adding an element of vibration, which is what makes it a home run for shared pleasure.

Like all maude devices, this one is made from medical grade silicone that feels smooth against your skin—and it’s incredibly easy to operate. The band has five vibration speeds, and each one is surprisingly quiet, yet intense.

If you’re big into cock rings and are looking for something a bit more high-tech, the Deimos cock ring by JimmyJane might be just the thing. The vibrating silicone ring has a motor in each ear, with seven vibration settings and three levels of intensity—and it’s great for clitoral stimulation, too.

We love that this toy comes with a remote control so one partner can operate while the other one sits back and enjoys.

Getting into friskier territory here, sex swings can be a great way to introduce new positions and dip your toe into the bondage waters. With a low price point, this sex swing by Lovehoney is a good starting point.

The adjustable straps are soft and cushioned for maximum comfort, and the acrylic barbells fit right over your door for easy setup. Per reviewers, the straps are durable and sturdy.

For lesbian couples and other two-vagina pairs looking to explore strap-ons, this harness and dildo kit includes everything you’ll need. The kit includes two silicone dildos at what the brand calls “beginner’s size” (5.6 inches in length and 3.6 inches in girth) and “advanced” (8 inches in length and 5.9 inches in girth).

There’s also a fully adjustable harness with leg straps and three O-rings to mix and match the dildos. The smaller dildo has a sleek, smooth body and defined head, while the larger size is more textured, with a tapered design for easy insertion.

This double-ended strap-on has an end for each partner. One side is 5-inches long, while the other has a 7-inch shaft. The widest point has a circumference of 4.5 inches. 

The curved design offers easy insertion—but the brand recommends a generous squeeze of water-based lube for maximum comfort. The waterproof device has three speeds and seven vibration powers, easily operated by an accompanying remote control.

It also comes with a harness specifically for this particular strap-on, so you get everything in one.

Lovehoney’s sex pillow is made from a firm-yet-comfortable microfibre-covered foam to ease discomfort and support an array of positions. The 27-degree angle is designed to help couples reach deeper penetration—and spoiler: 100+ reviewers say it works.

Bonus: The cover is machine-washable.

Remember the Nora Rabbit Vibrator? Meet it’s perfect match: The Max 2. This device pairs perfectly with the rabbit vibrator for simultaneous pleasure—and it’s also just as easy to pair with another Max 2 for gay couples.

This vibrating male masturbator is made from a soft, waterproof plastic, and it has an air-pump to mimic muscular contractions. Choose from three suction intensities and seven vibration settings to fully customize your experience.

Bonus: You can control the Max 2 from a distance via the Bluetooth-connected app.

Not a sex toy per se, but this natural candle burns into a sensual massage oil that seriously sets the mood. If you’re looking for a way to heat things up in the bedroom, try the maude burn candle.

It’s fragrance-free and made for sensitive skin, with softening ingredients like jojoba and soybean oil. When melted, the oil is warm (not hot!) ad can be poured directly onto your skin—just make sure to distinguish the flame first.

No one wants to worry about stains, especially when you’re just starting to get more creative in the bedroom. That’s where Liberator’s Fascinator Throw comes in; this waterproof throw protects your bedding, so you don’t have to worry about a thing.

The soft, micro-vevet blanket feels amazing against your skin—and it’s available in five colorways and multiple sizes, so you can choose what’s best for your bedroom aesthetic. Plus, the throw is machine washable, making cleanup a complete breeze.

This customizable set comes with four stretchy and stackable rings designed to go around the base of the penis, so you can control how much of your partner’s penis goes inside you. The result? More pleasurable sex with no discomfort. 

These hypoallergenic rings are condom-compatible and safe to use with water or silicone lube (just don’t use the latter with condoms). 

Perfect for beginners, this kit arrives in discreet packaging and contains everything you need to start your journey with anal pleasure. It comes with three different-size butt plugs to ease you into things and enhance pleasure as you go.

The smallest butt plug is slim and designed to look like a finger, the medium adds vibration to the mix, and the large size includes two weighted balls to create an even deeper sensation. In the kit, you’ll also find a lubricant applicator, anal enema, zipper travel bag, and a 50+ page handbook to guide you through.

All set on sex toys but still want to spice things up? Look no further. The Wonderlust Mindful Intimacy Card Deck will help you get to know your partner on a whole new level.

With prompts and questions to deepen your connection and inspire exploration, it’s the perfect switch up from your regular date night.

Speaking of fun games for the bedroom, how about a set of sex dice that costs less than $10? These spicy dice are perfect for couples who want some inspiration—and who aren’t afraid to try new things.

The set comes with three dice, and only one side says “sex.” The other sides are donned with terms like tickle, nibble, caress, and more, resulting in a seriously spice round of foreplay.

For a set that has anything a beginner to bondage might be curious about, try this bondage kit by Adam & Eve. It includes a paddle, a flogger, a feather tickler, a blindfold, a massage candle, and even sex cards and dice for ideas.

There’s even a velvety soft eye mask for anticipation, and a satin storage bag to keep everything tucked away when not in use. What’s more, the entire set costs less than $60.

This tiny tool uses suction to create a seal around the clitoris to replicate the sensation of oral sex—and it’s a great for partnered or solo use. Case in point: Men in the reviews love how much pleasure this small device gives their partner (especially when they’re the one operating it).

It has six levels of intensity, each of which delivers a pulsing sensation that stimulates pleasure in your sensitive clitoral nerve endings. 

The Dame Pom is sleek, smooth, and (best of all) will fit right in the palm of you (or your partner’s) hand. It’s made from medical grade silicone and offers five intensity levels and five pattern modes. It’s definitely on the more intense end, but stays surprisingly quiet. 

What we love about this pick is that you can use it on your own to heat things up before time with your partner, or they can use it on you. 

You don’t need to reinvent the wheel to add excitement to the bedroom. In fact, a classic vibrator can be an excellent sex toy for couples—especially when wielded by the hands of your partner.

This particular bullet vibrator is made from a high-quality silicone that will feel soft and smooth against your body (and comfortable in your partner’s hands). It has seven vibration patterns and three intensity settings, and the single-button interface makes the device incredibly easy to operate.

About the size of a tube of lipstick, this bullet vibrator is discreet—but it doesn’t skimp on power. The device has 12 vibration patterns and three intensity setting, offering a fully customizable experience solo or with a partner. 

We love this tiny vibrator for couple who want to enhance pleasure while traveling. The silicone material feels soft and skin-like, for a truly natural feel.

These clamps are meant to stimulate the nipples to increase pleasure. They can be worn throughout foreplay and penetration, and are a good sex toy for couples who are just introducing bondage into their bedroom play.

The clamps are weighted and adjustable for each couple to find their desired sensation. Plus, there’s a smooth silicone for optimal comfort. We also love the luxe-looking storage bag, offering a discreet hideaway.

How we selected the best sex toys for couples

After testing and writing about sex toys for over five years, interviewing countless experts, and researching the benefits of sex toys, I’ve learned a lot about how to choose the best sex toys for couples.

That in mind, we based our selections on a few key criteria:

Additionally, each sex toy on our list was recommended directly by at least one of five experts.

The benefits of using sex toys for couples

And when it comes to using sex toys with your partner, there are even more benefits to consider:

Ultimately, “[sex toys] take the focus away from penetration being the coup de grâce of sex and bring the focus back to what’s really important—which is all of the fun, pleasurable sensations, and just the adventure of being sexual together,” Balestrieri says.

Expert advice for introducing sex toys into your relationship

Each of our experts share the same belief about how to introduce sex toys into your relationship: Dip your toe in the water before diving in. This allows you to build comfort and learn more about what the two of you like together (it may be different than what you like on your own!).

Here’s how to start the conversation:

The takeaway

Sexual pleasure can enhance your own well-being and deepen your connection with your partner—and there’s a toy out there for every sexual need. Based on expert insight, extensive research, and a whole lot of testing, these 31 picks are the best sex toys for couples to increase intimacy and spice up their time in the bedroom.

Of course, don’t forget to check sex toy’s cleaning instructions, practice safe sex, and keep the communication between you and your partner honest and open.

Additional reporting by Sarah Regan.