When thinking about how to be more seductive, your brain might jump to flashing some skin, swiping on a paint-the-town red lipstick, or flirtily brushing your hand over a guy’s chest.
But did you know that certain words can be equally seductive?
Here are five scrumptiously seductive words that will make men desire you more from afar. Sit back and watch as men become drawn to you in ways you’ve never experienced before!
1. No
If you’re nice and enjoy making people happy, you might be a people-pleaser. And people-pleasers will do everything in their power to avoid saying the word “no,” even at the expense of their health and well-being.
When you say yes to everyone’s demands, what you’re really saying is that you don’t value your time and energy enough to put your needs and wants first. This is a common trait in low-value men and women.
Women who value their time, energy, and affection are not willing to dole it out like a free subway paper to just anyone. They’re willing to say no, even if people don’t like it.
Learning to say no will immediately raise your value and help you attract a high-quality man.
2. Yes
This might sound contradictory, but I want you to learn to say no, just not to everything!
If the man you’re dating is being reasonable and respecting your boundaries, let him take the lead. Say yes to him taking you out and planning the first date. Say yes to going to his favorite steakhouse and having a go at playing pool at a dive bar after.
Lean back into your feminine energy and receive (Little Love Step #1) so he can step into his masculine. This will give you the space you need to figure out if he’s the right guy for you and will also help the attraction between you build like nothing you’ve ever known!
3. Why
We’re all guilty of asking a lot of boring questions when we’re dating!
Remember, a date is not a job interview, so you have permission to dump the “what do you do” and “where do you live” questions and go deeper.
One of the best ways to do this is to ask, “why?” or follow up a previous answer with, “why?”
This interesting question is guaranteed to lead to an interesting response and will help you build a deeper connection.
4. Passionate
It’s a pet peeve of mine when people overuse this word and claim to be passionate about everything because this is impossible, so it comes off as disingenuous.
We are all passionate about something in particular—a hobby, a cause, or a mission. And when someone talks about one of their passions, it’s truly captivating.
So think about what you’re most passionate about, and weave this into the conversation on your next date.
5. Slow
The final seductive word I want to share is “slow.”
The further you move in the dating process, the more likely the man will want to move faster than you. But when you slow things down, it reaffirms your value, helps you decide who’s worth exclusivity, and naturally makes men want to pursue you even harder. This is why Little Love Step #5 is about pacing the progression of your connections.
So the next time you find yourself dating a man who meets your love vision, and he’s trying to speed things up, put your foot on the brakes and slow it right down like a car moving through downtown LA.
