As you pursue your daily activities, you will interact with different people.
Then boom! There is this one person you meet and get to know one another. After a short time, you start having a crush on them.
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But wait, do they like you too, or are you just building castles in the air? Let’s hope they do.
❣️ Here are the 33 signs to answer: “Does my crush like me?” ❣️
1. They ask for your contact details
When someone likes you, they will want to keep talking to you. They will want to have chats with you because you make them happy.
Therefore if a crush likes you back, they will ask for your phone number, address, and social media handles to get back to you.
2. They are interested to know you better
Does your crush like to ask you many questions, or are you the one igniting the conversation? Does he inquire about your career, hobbies, and family?
If he shows interest in getting to know you better, that is a huge crush on you.
3. They reply to your messages almost immediately
Someone who likes you back won’t keep you waiting for long. They will respond to your chats immediately because they wish to start dating you.
Hence, if you ask yourself, ‘does my crush like me?’, look at your chats and see how long they take to get back to you.
4. They keep looking at you
If you catch your crush staring at you more often, know they like what they are seeing. They are admiring you, and they are interested in you.
Besides, your crush may shy away when you look back at them.
5. They become envious when they see you with someone else
As human beings, we hate it when we know the person we are crushing on hanging out with another person.
The same way with your crush-If he starts acting weird when he finds out that you are close to someone else, he likes you. He is probably jealous because he fears losing you.
6. They are nervous when around you
How do you feel when you are around your crush? Of course, you become anxious, start playing with your hair and fidgeting.
When your crush is feeling attracted to you, he is likely to behave the same. They will be smiling more often and fumble as you have that crush talk.
7. They remember essential details about you
If you are wondering- ‘does my crush like me?’, go back to your birthday. Did they wish you a happy birthday or bought you a present?
If they did, they would be honest about how they like you.
8. They inquire about your relationship status
They may ask you directly whether you are single or taken. Or else, they may be like, ‘Hey beautiful, who do you spend time with of late? ‘
If he comes asking you this quiz, he possibly wants to hang out with you frequently and initiate something.
9. They want to spend time with you more frequently
When people have feelings for one another, they want to spend hours together to have fun and make memories.
Hence, your crush will create more time for you. They have all the excuses to meet you.
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10. They tell you their secrets
Has your crush ever told you their deep things, such as embarrassing moments or a dark past? If they did, they have a crush on you too.
They have seen you as a trustworthy person who can keep secrets.
When they open up, kindly keep the secrets not to ruin the friendship.
11. They blush when they meet you
Quiz: Did your crush blush even before you started talking the last time you were together?
For instance, when you tell him, ‘I like your t-shirt, can I get one like it?’, he can’t help but get that pink tinge on his face.
12. They want to sit next to you
A person who likes you will always want to sit close to you to smile back at you.
When you meet your crush at a party, they will book the seat next to or opposite you. They want to set their eyes on you because they figure their life with you.
13. Their friends act weird when you are around
Have you ever found yourself between two people who love each other? How does it feel? It is awkward, and you feel out of place.
This is how his friend feels when you hang out with them. They may also try to throw a word or two to suggest that your crush likes you.
Your crush will always want to get your attention. As a result, they will keep touching you intentionally.
You can realize this when the crush touches your leg with his when you are seated next to him.
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21. They ask your friends about you
Have your friends told you that someone was asking them some quizzes about you? That might be your crush wanting to know more about you.
Your crush asks your good friends more about you before they initiate a long-term relationship.
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22. They admit it
This is the easiest way to know if your crush likes you or not. You can ask them directly if they feel something about you. If they do, they will admit it.
However, you may find that they are not into you. Please don’t feel bad for asking them because not everyone will like you.
23. They try to be at their best when around you
When you are out playing games or having fun with your crush, they will behave at their best.
Besides, they will dress nicely and talk well when you meet. This is because they don’t want to annoy the one they love.
24. They feel good when around you
Your crush will feel like a hero when he is around you. He will walk along the streets shoulder-high and showing off to other people.
Besides, when you hang out, he will be protective and help you in every way possible.
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25. They do what you do
Have you ever found yourself doing the same thing with someone else? For instance, when you pocket your hand, they do the same.
This is because human beings unconsciously mirror the things that their favorite people do.
26. They appreciate you even for small things
Your crush will recognize your effort despite how small it seems. This is because they want to make you feel good.
They will be grateful for little things such as liking their post on social media.
27. They raise their eyebrows when they see you
Do you pass somewhere frequently, and then someone raises their eyebrows when they see you. They may not even greet you, but deep down, they are crushing on you.
They will stare at you till you are nowhere to be seen because their body reacts when you are around.
Your crush will want you to notice him. Hence, he will have that perfect male posture to impress you.
You can realize it when he walks in front of you. He will stand tall, pull his neck and suck in his stomach.
☀ Sneaky signs that someone has a crush on you ☀
Here are 5 different ways you can tell someone is admiring you secretly;
➽ Showing concern
You can tell that your crush is after you when they bring you food at work or check on you when you are sick. They are proving they want you to be more than friends.
➽ Acting differently when around you compared to other people
The quiz below will help you to know if your crush is attracted to you.
Does your crush try to be perfect when he is around you? The guy is trying to win your attention because he has a crush on you.
➽ Laughing at almost everything you say (in a good way)
If the question of ‘does my crush like me?’ keeps ringing in your head, check on how he behaves when you talk. Does the crush laugh when you make jokes, even when they aren’t funny?
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➽ They try to prove that you are the best
This is one of the most cunning ways a crush can show he likes you. He will tell others how cute or responsible you are.
➽ They stare at you
Quiz: Have you ever seen a guy at work staring at you always when you are walking around the office or making a presentation?
If yes, he has a crush on you, and maybe he figures you as good luck in his life.
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💟 Get Your Crush To Like You Back 💟
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Here are 5 surprising ways people make their crush likes them back and probably start serious relationships;
➤ Show interest in what they like
When you have an eye on someone, you will quickly notice what they like. If they like watching movies or going for a nature walk, offer to be with them.
Your crush will be pleased with your company, and they will likely fall into the trap of love.
➤ Wear the colors they like
If you have had many quizzes in your mind of ‘does my crush like me?’, below is one quiz that can help you win their heart.
Which colors does he like? If he likes blue, add some beautiful blue dresses and tops to your wardrobe and wear them when meeting them.
➤ Make yourself available
To be honest, it takes courage to take the first move, but actions speak louder than words.
For instance, if you are attending a concert over the weekend, you can invite him and arrange for his ticket.
➤ Laugh at their jokes
According to Wyatt Fisher, PsyD, licensed psychologist and host of marriage podcast, Marriage Steps, the more we laugh with someone, the more we are drawn to them.
Take that chance and laugh at every joke your crush makes, and they will be attracted to you.
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5. Confession
Be honest with yourself and especially if you have been crushing on them for a long. You can approach your crush directly or chat with them to confess your feelings.
Who knows, they may be feeling the same.
💞 How do you date your crush? 💞
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You could be wondering, ‘how do I date my crush?’ Worry not because it is possible and especially if they are your friend.
💝 Here are some tips for dating your crush and turn the thing into a relationship 💝
✔️ Always dress well when you are going on a date.
✔️ Stop viewing this guy as a crush and start seeing him as a potential life partner.
✔️ Be yourself, and don’t pretend.
✔️ Show care and concern when together by small things like pulling out a chair for her.
✔️ Appreciate them for taking you on a date and assure them you had fun.
🧐 Conclusions 🧐
Most people, if not all, find themselves asking the question of, ‘does my crush like me?’ in one stage of their life. Besides, it is challenging to know if they do. However, with our tips, you can never go wrong! You will know their stand and perhaps start that relationship you have wished.
Ruth is a life coach who specialises in relationships and career development. Outside work, she loves writing novels and guides for personal development.
