Have you ever tried to flirt with your crush, but found yourself tongue-tied? Or maybe you’re looking for ways to get to know your boyfriend a little better?
Either way, this list of flirty questions to ask guys will open up doors in your relationship, no matter what stage you’ve reached.
Asking these questions can help you gain a deeper understanding of him as a person, while also developing your bond.
Knowing him better will give you a new appreciation for his strengths and a better understanding of his point of view.
The only downside is you’ll wonder why you didn’t read this sooner.
What Are Good Flirty Questions?
Before you dive into the lists of flirty questions to ask a guy, let’s spell out the qualities that make a particular flirty question worth asking:
It’s easy for the guy in question to answer;
It makes the guy feel more interesting;
It fits the occasion and gives you both something to talk about;
It gives you a sense of a guy’s patience with random questions;
It distracts you both from the awkwardness (and doesn’t add to it);
It gives you a chance to build and practice confidence;
It reveals useful information about his character and preferences.
The best flirty questions will get you the information you seek without giving too much away. Do it right, and there’s a strong chance the guy in question will ask you those questions right back and show an interest in your answers.
So, don’t waste time on questions you don’t really care about. But don’t go too deep too quickly, either.
175 Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy
Ready to get started? Grab a pen and paper and write down your favorite questions.
Or better yet, print this entire article and keep it handy so you can surprise your guy with a new question every day.
Cute Flirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend
Just because he’s your boyfriend doesn’t mean you already know everything you need to know about him.
And these cute flirty questions to keep it light while you learn useful information about each other.
1. When did you know you liked me? Where were we/What were we doing at the time?
2. What’s your idea of a perfect date? Where would we go? What would we do?
22. What’s your favorite mindless activity? Ex: Coloring, Watching TV, Reading, etc.
23. What’s your favorite grounding activity? Ex: Yoga, Meditation, etc.
Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy You Like
If you like this guy, and he’s willing to answer some questions, the following will give you a peek into the way his mind works — as well as whether he’s into you, too (though you might have to rely on body language for that).
24. What’s your favorite TV or book couple?
25. What, in your opinion, is the best feel-good song?
26. Who knows you better than anyone?
27. If you could be a master of any one skill, what would it be?
28. What’s the nicest thing someone could say to you?
29. What accomplishment are you most proud of?
30. What’s something that not many people know about you?
31. Do you believe in love at first sight? Why or why not?
32. Do you prefer movie dates or restaurant dates?
33. What makes you laugh?
34. Do your friends have any nicknames for you? Do you like them, or would you like to change them?
35. Do you prefer a sweet breakfast or a savory one? What foods do you like to start your day with?
47. If you had $500 to spend on anything, what would you do?
48. Which fictional character do you most identify with?
Fun Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy
Picture yourself just having a fun conversation with a guy, and suddenly, your mind goes blank. And now he’s giving you that dreaded questioning look. That’s why it’s good to keep fun questions like the following handy.
49. Are you a roller coaster person or a ferris wheel person?
50. If you could live in any fictional world, which would you choose?
51. What’s the craziest date you’ve ever been on?
52. If the world was ending tomorrow, what would you want to do today?
53. What do you consider to be your greatest skill?
54. What would you try if you knew you couldn’t fail?
55. What’s your dream vacation? How would you get there?
56. What’s on your bucket list?
57. Who would you want to be trapped in an escape room with?
58. Describe your life up to this moment in five words.
59. What’s the craziest dream you’ve ever had?
60. Do you like baking or cooking better?
61. Would you rather learn self-defense or gymnastics?
62. If you could learn any language, what would it be?
63. What was your favorite game to play as a child?
64. On Thanksgiving, what food are you most likely to go for first?
65. What’s the weirdest inside joke you’ve ever had?
66. What’s your preferred clothing style? Do you like to get all dressed up?
67. What’s your favorite candy bar?
68. Do you like to dance? Would you say you’re good at it?
69. What’s your favorite thing about the outdoors?
70. If you had to move to a foreign country, which would you choose?
71. If you could have any superpower, what would it be?
72. Who’s your favorite superhero?
73. What, in your opinion, is the most underrated song?
74. What story cliché do you actually like?
75. What’s an old movie that you think everyone should see?
Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy Over Text
You’ve met. You’ve hit it off. And now, you’re texting each other!
Congratulations for getting this far, but the flirty questions don’t have to wait for face-to-face time. Use the following questions to keep the flirtation going.
76. What three words would you use to describe yourself?
82. What’s your favorite holiday? How do you like to spend it?
83. What’s your favorite movie to watch with friends or company?
84. What’s your favorite feel-good movie for when you’re feeling down?
85. What’s your favorite holiday movie?
86. What’s your favorite thing to do at a party?
87. Who’s your favorite actor?
88. What’s your favorite song?
89. Where are you sitting and what are you wearing right now?
90. What emojis would you use to describe your day?
91. Will you send me a gif that captures your current mood?
92. Do you have any pets?
93. Do you prefer phone calls or texting?
94. If you could have anything for dinner, what would it be?
95. What does your name mean?
96. Will you send me a screenshot from your favorite show?
97. What’s your favorite social media site?
98. What app do you use the most?
99. Do you like dark chocolate or milk chocolate?
100. What’s your favorite kind of cheese?
101. Who was your first crush and why did you like her?
Subtle Flirty Questions to Ask A Guy
You’ll want to keep the flirtation subtle if you’re sussing this guy out as potential boyfriend material. Anyone could ask the following questions without sounding overly curious or flirty. Using too many of them at once, though, could blow your cover.
102. What’s the first thing you notice about a person when you meet them?
103. Would you go out of your way to be nice to someone? And if yes, who?
104. What’s the most important thing in your life right now?
105. Where do you think your best qualities came from?
106. Do any words make you deeply uncomfortable? Would you be willing to write them down, so I can avoid saying them?
107. What is your favorite social media platform, and what do you like about it?
108. What is your favorite way to spend a cold winter day (or a hot summer day)?
109. What would you give up if you had to give up one of your kitchen appliances?
110. What would you keep if you could only keep one of your kitchen appliances?
111. What do you like about yourself that you think few people notice?
112. If you have houseplants, do you give them names? Do you talk to them?
113. Would you rather take pictures with your phone or a high-quality digital camera?
114. Are there any foods you never buy that people expect you to have?
115. Are there any scents or sounds you cannot tolerate?
116. Who is someone you admire in your field, and what do you admire most about them?
117. How do you define success, and how will you know when you attain it?
118. When was the last time you tried something new, and what was it?
119. What traits do you think a partner would look for in you?
120. Do you enjoy speaking in front of a group?
121. Do you have any habits that could drive a person crazy?
122. Are there any personal habits in others that drive you crazy?
123. Ever taken a dare and done something you now regret?
124. Have you ever watched a movie you didn’t expect to like but ended up loving it?
125. Would you rather date your high school crush or your celebrity crush?
126. What is your least favorite vegetable?
Flirty Questions to Ask A Guy to Know Him Deeper
Ask any of the following questions to get to know this guy on a deeper level. You’re way past the small talk, so don’t be afraid to ask him a question that demands a thoughtful answer. And don’t forget to return the favor if he asks these questions of you.
127. What’s one thing you’re tired of talking about — or being asked about?
128. What’s your favorite thing to do that doesn’t cost a thing?
129. Have you ever cried during the sad part of a movie? Which one always gets you?
130. Tell me something about you that might surprise me.
131. If you could choose something to be famous for, what would it be?
132. What have you always imagined doing with a girlfriend that you haven’t done yet?
133. What do you think about before you fall asleep at night?
134. If someone burglarized your home, what’s one thing you would hope they didn’t take?
135. Where do you see yourself in the next five years? And where do I fit in?
136. If you want to college, what did you love most about it? What do you not miss?
137. What solo activities do you enjoy the most? Or what hobbies do you prefer to do alone?
138. When was the last time you did something big just for you?
139. What is something you’ve accomplished that you’re really proud of?
140. What is something you’ve been through that has shaped the person you are today?
141. What is something you really want to accomplish this year?
142. If you could replace something in your home for free, what would it be and why?
143. Describe your dream office.
144. What would convince you to move to a different area?
145. What do you love about living here? What have you wanted to do here that you haven’t done yet?
146. What does a typical morning for you look like?
147. What is the most reckless or impulsive thing you’ve ever done?
148. Do you like surprises? If yes, what’s the best surprise you’ve gotten so far?
149. What do you think is the point of flirting?
150. Tell me about something you never want to live without.
151. What technological advance excites you the most (3D-printed houses, tech implants, etc.)?
Flirty Questions to Ask A Guy You Just Met
You’ve just met this guy, and he’s giving off an intriguing vibe. So naturally, you’re curious, hoping to learn more about him. Any of the following questions can serve as ice-breakers. Some are more daring than others.
152. What are your top five things to do on your weekends or any day you don’t work?
153. What is the bravest thing you’ve ever done (besides talking to me)?
154. How comfortable are you with people who ask a lot of questions?
155. How are you with secrets?
156. What’s your favorite car — and what do you love about it?
157. Have you ever done something crazy to go after something you want?
158. What are your thoughts on vision boards?
159. Did you work summer jobs as a kid? And if so, what was your favorite?
160. What would you say if you could go back ten years and tell yourself something?
161. If you could change just one thing in the world, what would that be?
162, How do you handle it when you go out, and the restaurant messes up your order?
163. What do you think of the service here so far? How big a tip would you leave them?
164. If you could be a supervillain for a day, what would you be? And what would you do?
165. What is your favorite pick-me-up in the morning? And what helps you wind down?
166. If you had to move at a moment’s notice to take a dream job, would you think, “Challenge accepted!” or “This is how I die”?
167. What would you do if you took me on a picnic date and it started to rain (a lot)?
168. Or what’s your idea of a perfect outdoor date (weather permitting)?
169. Have you ever wanted to climb Mt. Everest? Do you plan to make that happen?
170. If I wanted to go skydiving, would you be game?
171. Have you ever had a friendly debate with someone that stayed respectful and left you with a better impression of the other person?
172. What does your perfect day look like? Walk me through it.
173. What are your thoughts on guinea pigs as pets? Snakes? Exotic birds? Rocks?
174. What do you think is the best place to have a first date, and why? Worst place?
175. What changes would you make to your neighborhood? For example, would you make it safer for pedestrians and bicyclists?
How will you use these flirty questions to ask a guy?
With these flirty questions for him, you can gain a better understanding of the way his brain works, while also seeing the way he looks at the world.
Of course, if he brushes off your questions and keeps dragging the conversation into safer territory (for him), that’s a definite red flag.
But if he’s game, and he answers the questions to the best of his ability, there’s no telling what you’ll learn about each other — especially if he asks you to answer them, too.
This list will also give you some ideas for dates, gifts, or any simple gestures.
Make sure to keep this list on hand in case you need a way to deepen your connection.
May you both enjoy learning more about each other.
