Even in a healthy relationship, mistakes, carelessness, and conflict are inevitable. The right repairs at the right time can make all the difference. Resolve disagreements and get your message through by finding common ground, sharing when you feel persuaded, and stating when you need to take a break or when you feel that you’re both moving towards a solution.
Together, you can get back on track during conflict. Repair is one of the best tools a couple can have at their disposal. Learn how to use repairs in the Relationship Coach: All About Conflict.
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