We get it. People who are constantly droning on and on about the glories of their partners can be a lot. Things can also get creepy and overbearing when one partner continually gives their SO an adulation dousing.
Essentially, loads of lip-service compliments can spoil one sincere one.
However, never dolling out praise is worse! Couples that applaud each other stay together. Why is it vital?
Spoken Affection: Even people with emotional strength need reassurance now and again. It’s human nature.
Self-Esteem: While the root of self-esteem is genuine self-love, receiving compliments from loved ones feels supportive and welcome.
Better Health: When our mental health is optimal, our physical health improves.
Increases Happiness All Around: When we shower our loved ones with praise and encouragement, we create happier environments.
What Kind of Compliments Do Girls Like?
Females aren’t a monolith. We come in all shapes, sizes, and personalities. Some women despise being elevated on a pampered pedestal, while others crave it.
Regardless, in nearly all cases, the best compliments for your girlfriendfit into the four pillars of praise.
Sincere: Women can sniff out insincerity like a pig on a truffle.
Thoughtful: Compliments that directly relate to her life are usually more impactful and appreciated.
Specific: Get specific to let her know you pay attention.
Unique: Everyone likes to feel special, so unique compliments go over well.
Looking forsomething sweet to say to a girl?For you, we’ve come up with over 100 original ideas.
And yes, you can use them to woo her and pretend you came up with them on your own. We won’t say a word.
When She Needs a Confidence Boost
1. I don’t think you can do it — I know you can! Hearing that you have faith in her abilities could be the exact boost she needs.
2. You’ve never failed when you’ve truly put your mind to something. Perfect for the person fearful of failing and therefore afraid to try.
3. You’re more talented than you think. Often, the most capable people have rock-bottom self-esteem. Let her know you recognize her skills and abilities.
4. I’m the luckiest person in the world to be with someone as special as you. Let her know you see and value the best parts of her.
5. You may not be perfect, but you’re as perfect as anyone could hope to be. Lightly acknowledge that we all have shortcomings while gassing up her ego.
6. You have a strong work ethic and are always willing to go the extra mile, which makes a huge difference. Everyone likes to be recognized for their hard work.
7. You’re the bravest person I know, and the number of challenges you’ve overcome is awe-inspiring. Many women’s bravery goes unnoticed. Let her know you see her.
8. You are the strongest person I know and have ever met. Be careful with this one. Sometimes, women want and need space to be vulnerable. But for someone who needs a boost of confidence, this can work in the right situation.
9. Your sense of adventure makes life more exciting. For the Lara Croft in your life.
10. Your resilience is legendary, and I know you’ll land on your feet on a higher step. Let her know you have every confidence she has what it takes.
11. I believe in you with every cell of my body. Women love to know their partners believe in their abilities.
12. You’ve overcome hardships before, and you’ll do it again. Remind your lady that she’s done it before and has what it takes to do it again.
13. You’re well-liked, joyful, and have more compassion than 90% of the population. You’ve got this! Boost her ego by letting her know she’s in the upper echelon of awesomeness.
When She Needs To Hear She Looks Great
14. You still take my breath away. This is a lovely compliment when couples have been together for a long time.
15. You have a uniquely [beautiful smile / brilliant eyes / etc.]. Point out her best physical qualities!
16. You have a great sense of style and always look fantastic, even when lounging in sweats. Your gal doesn’t need to get gussied up to look fabulous. Let her know!
17. Your smile brightens every room you enter. Put a smile on her face by complimenting hers.
18. I’ve never before seen eyes as dazzling as yours. Many ladies love to be told they have gorgeous eyes.
19. You never have to spend hours “getting ready” because you’re a natural stunner with beauty that shines from within. Compliments like these can destress someone anxious about their appearance.
20. To my eyes, you’re the most beautiful woman in the world. Let her know you only have eyes for her.
21. You’re beautiful, on the inside and out. Beauty is more than skin-deep, and she’s the whole package.
22. Like a candle, you shine brightly. Admittedly, this is a bit cheesy — but who doesn’t adore a little fromage?
23. I’m going to have a tough time keeping my hands off you tonight. This only works for people in consensual relationships.
24. Wow! I’ll be on the arm of the most beautiful woman in the room tonight. A classic compliment that never sours.
25. You’re glowing! Your beauty bowls me over. Glowing is a super word that packs a positive punch.
26. Sweetie, do you think I’d date someone who wasn’t a knockout? A tongue-in-cheek compliment to lighten the mood.
When You’ve Settled Into a Blissfully Boring Life
27. You have a great sense of humor, and I’d rather spend every day at home, laughing and chilling with you, than chasing “the Joneses” around town. A play on the adage about “keeping up with the Joneses.”
28. I could sit around listening to you all day long. Your voice is incredibly sexy. If you spend a lot of time at home hanging out, let her know how much you enjoy everything that comes from her mouth.
29. Your presence makes everything better. When being together is all you need.
30. Your love is the light that guides me through life. Sure, it’s a bit dramatic, but sometimes that fits the bill perfectly.
31. You are my everything: my rock, my muse, and the reason I get out of bed each day. Praise her for everything she means to you.
32. Your unwavering love and support is the best gift I’ve ever been given. Referring to your relationship as a gift has the power to melt her heart.
33. I’m so lucky to have found my best friend and lover in one perfect package: you! She’s all you need to be happy.
34. You are a true partner in every sense of the word; I’m so lucky to have found you. When you’re in a long-term relationship, looks aren’t the only important thing.
35. I’d rather do nothing with you than everything with them. Let her know you’re not upset or bored with the quiet life you’ve built together.
36. I’d go through all the hardship I weathered all over again if I knew I’d end up with you. This is an excellent option if you’ve been through hell and back and remained together.
37. Even after all these crazy, unpredictable years, you’re still the love of my life. Knowing someone loves you through the ups and downs builds self-esteem and confidence in the relationship.
38. I’m done chasing after things. I have everything I could ever want or need right here with you. Contentment is a huge compliment.
39. The life we’ve built together is the most amazing thing I’ve been a part of. This emphasizes how far you’ve come, hand in hand.
When She Needs To Know She’s a Good Person
40. Your optimistic outlook on life is inspiring. Bow down to her graciousness.
41. I’ve never met anyone as generous as you. Generosity is a wonderful quality that deserves to be praised.
42. Nobody listens as intently as you; that’s why you always have incredible advice. Great listeners are difficult to come by.
43. You have the warmest soul and the kindest heart. Let her know you recognize her sweetness.
44. Your superhuman ability to forgive and offer endless compassion makes you one of the best people I’ve ever met. Few things are more attractive than someone who can forgive and roll with life’s punches.
45. You know who you are and always stand up for what’s right. This is perfect for a lady with a strong inner compass.
46. I’m forever impressed with your ability to stand alone for the right reasons. Sticking to one’s guns and not following the crowd can be admirable.
47. In this environment, the fact that nobody agrees with you is a testament to your character. For the times when your lady finds herself surrounded by problematic people.
48. Your ability to brighten everyone’s day never ceases to amaze me. Is your woman a master at making people feel welcome and comfortable?
49. You’re curious, kind, and constantly expanding your knowledge of yourself and the world.Personal growth is an admirable endeavor. Let her know you think it’s great.
50. Nobody can always please everyone, but your track record is enviable. This works well after she’s been criticized or fallen short.
51. You may sometimes get it wrong, but I challenge anyone to find someone as caring and sincere as you. Nobody’s perfect, but people who try to be caring and genuine always come out on top.
52. You’re the kind of person who even gives narcissists the benefit of the doubt. This is perfect when your lady is dealing with difficult people in other aspects of her life.
53. You have a kind and caring heart. When people are being hounded from all directions, a reminder that you see her quality character can help tremendously.
54. You uplift everyone around you, and you’re allowed to take a break. For the lady who goes out of her way for everyone and needs a respite.
55. It’s reached a point where they’re taking advantage of your nurturing spirit, and you have every right to draw boundaries. Let her know you have her back and see that she’s being treated poorly.
56. There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship or friendship. Give it time. I know things will sort themselves out. Drama can hit hard. Remind her that it’s not the end of the world.
57. They’ve taken advantage of you for far too long. Sometimes, people need permission to acknowledge when they’re being treated poorly.
58. Be true to yourself. Be kind. Let fate take it from there. Encourage her to control what she can and let the rest of the pieces fall where they may.
59. It’s okay to let go. Everyone needs this nudge every once in a while
60. You have every right to protect your mental health. Encourage your gal to indulge in some self-care.
61. You don’t need to take on their issues. You have enough to deal with! For the lady who uploads everyone else’s problems in an effort to help.
62. They’re lucky to have you in their lives, and they’ll realize that soon enough. This compliment lets her know you think she’s fantastic — and so should everyone else.
63. Sometimes, you have to let people act out. But you don’t need to take responsibility for their behavior. This works when she’s taking things too personally.
64. I love you more than you know, and I’ll always have your back. Boost your gal’s confidence and let her know she’s never alone.
65. Any sane person can see you’re right. A practical quip that will surely put a smile on her face.
When She Needs To Know You’re Committed (Just Not Ready To Marry)
66. I can’t imagine not ever being around your warm and comforting touch. Infuse your assurance with a bit of intimacy.
67. I couldn’t live without hearing your laugh daily. Looks fade, but laughter lives forever.
68. I love you so much, more than anyone before. Let her know she’s a special outlier in your life.
69. It’s not the right time, but that doesn’t mean I don’t love you to pieces. State your truth, but give her confidence.
70. I need you in my life; I want the logistics to be in place before tying the knot. This lets her know you have the same goal but need more time.
71. You’re the most magnificent person in the world to me; I’m not going anywhere. State it plainly and lovingly.
72. When I think about the future, I see you by my side every step of the way. This will assure her that you have every intention of sticking around.
73. You make me a better and better person with each passing day. Few compliments are more endearing than letting someone know they make you a better person.
74. No one in this world compares to you. Soothe her anxiety about your relationship.
75. You’re the one for me. I know that from the bottom of my heart. “The one” is a universal signal for “soul mate.”
76. Not a day goes by when I don’t think about how much I love you. Remind her that she’s always on your mind, for better or worse.
77. I know where we’re headed, and I’m fully on board. This compliment reassures her that you’re still on the same page and working toward the same goal.
78. Unfortunately, my dear, you’re stuck with me for life — paper or no paper. It’s cute and gets the point across.
When She Needs To Know She’s Smart and Capable
79. Your creativity and imagination are like none other. I’m always in awe of your mind. Not everyone is a brilliant scientist or mathematician. Praise your lady’s creative side.
80. You’re incredibly smart and knowledgeable and don’t give yourself enough credit. Women often undersell themselves.
81. I’ve never met someone with as much of a natural talent for [insert specific skill or activity]. Get specific! Let her know you pay attention.
82. Your intelligence continues to amaze me. “Intelligence” and “amaze” work well together and can give people goosebumps.
83. You have unique talents and incisive vision, which will take you anywhere you want to go. Let her know she stands out from the crowd.
84. I have zero doubt that you’re capable of achieving incredible things. Vocalize your faith in her abilities.
85. I wish you had as much confidence in yourself as I do in you. Boost her self-esteem by letting her know you’re impressed with her skills and talents.
86. You’re a maestro of metaphors and have a fluidity of speech far and beyond most folks. For the writer in your life.
87. You’re incredible with numbers. For the math whiz or finance person in your life.
88. I have no idea how you figure things out so quickly. Saying you “have no idea” how she does it will fill her tank with a burst of confidence.
89. I wish I had your brain. Envy can be a potent form of flattery.
90. Mediocre minds often overlook brilliance. Sometimes, the most effective tact is the superior one.
91. I want to be as intelligent and talented as you when I grow up. This is a cute way to let her know you think she’s a genius.
When She’s At the Top of Her Game
92. Your personality is unique, captivating, and alluring. Of course, everyone wants to be around you. Don’t worry. She’s humble. It won’t go to her head.
93. Your energy is contagious, and your passion for life is inspiring. “Contagious” and “passion” are unique words that will make her feel special.
94. Your confidence is driving me crazy, in a good way. Let her know her competency makes you hot!
95. Your commitment to positivity makes me rethink my outlook because everything really does work out for you. Validate her worldview.
96. You constantly strive to be the best version of yourself, which encourages me to be the same. This lets her know you think she’s at the top of her game.
97. You’ve had such a positive impact on my life. People love to know they make a positive difference.
98. You deserve everything you have because you’ve worked incredibly hard to get it. Give her all the credit!
99. You’re such a badass, babe. Short, sweet, and incredibly complimentary.
When There’s No Reason In Particular
100. You’re magic and always make people feel comfortable and at ease. Many women love to think they’ve got a bit of magic.
101. Your smile needs a new wattage designation. It’s sensational! A play on words that will put a smile on her face.
102. You don’t just cook; living with you is like living with a gourmet chef. I’m so lucky! For the amazing cook in your life.
103. Good morning, sunshine! You light up my life! Who doesn’t like a sweet morning message?
104. Reminder: You always rank #1 on my list. Sending this out of the blue, apropos of nothing, will fill her with love for you.
105. I miss your laugh. When you’re away and can’t wait to get home.
106. You fill me with joy and gratitude. Let her know how wonderful she makes you feel!
107. Thank you for being my lady. A simple thank you can go a long way.
Final Thoughts
Go ahead and shower your lady with praise. She’ll appreciate it, you’ll feel good about it, and it will strengthen your bond and improve your relationship.
Just remember to refrain from going overboard. You don’t want to come across as insincere or too clingy — because neither is never a good look.
