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Our Dark Night of the Soul

Originally published in Doré on 4/6/2020 A few years ago, a relationship I was in ended, I experienced a challenging transition in my career, and I turned 30. The confluence of these shifts left me feeling lost, unmoored, like an internal earthquake had occurred and I could no longer trust the ground beneath my feet. As a clinical psychologist, Adjustment…

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Dating: We’re Doing it Wrong

Originally published in Doré on 10/11/2019 *Names and identifying information have been changed to protect patient anonymity* I hate to break it to you, but when it comes to dating, I think we may be doing it wrong. Let me explain.  Laura, a 32-year-old CEO of a high-powered tech company, walks into my office and immediately starts…