If you’ve watched any of my videos, you’ll know how important it is to use touch to show a guy you like him and build your connection.
But how do you strike the right balance between “I just want to be friends” and “Let’s do it on this table right here, right now”?
The key is to touch him sensually, not sexually.
And in this video, I’m sharing my top three ways to send a guy all the right messages to drive him wild and keep him coming back for more.
Way #1: When you first meet him, hug him
Outside of dating, hugging a stranger in the street might seem a little unconventional. But dating is a completely different scenario. And when you meet a guy on a first date, breaking the touch barrier by giving him a friendly hug is a wonderful way to instantly build a personal, deeper connection with him.
Way #2: Lightly touch him on his arm or hand
Years ago, I was on a date with a woman, and I felt she wasn’t into me. But then I told her one of my many stupid jokes, and she laughed then touched my arm. And in that moment, I thought, “hmmm, this woman likes me.”
So, if you’re on a date with a guy and you’re attracted to him, when he says something funny, lightly brush his arm or hand with yours. This is a brilliant way to signal that you like him.
Way #3: When you want a guy to kiss you, softly caress his neck or hair
The neck is a sensitive, vulnerable area of our body. Usually, we don’t let people touch us here unless we trust them or we have a medical emergency where we have no say in the matter.
If you find yourself on a date wondering when the heck this guy is going to kiss you, softly touch him on the back of his neck or run your fingers lightly through his hair. This will send a clear message to him that you want to lock lips.