Even without children, divorcing a narcissistic husband or wife is anything but simple, amicable, and low-stress. Add children, and the narcissist has another powerful weapon at their disposal. And you can count on them to make the divorce and its aftermath as painful as possible—for you. So, what can you do to protect yourself (and…
Here you are looking for tips on how to tell someone you’re not interested after a few dates—or shortly after meeting them. Because you’re just not feeling it. Yet you don’t want to hurt this person. It’s not that you don’t think anyone could be happy dating them. In fact, you want them to find…
Telling someone you miss them does not have to be hard, but you don’t want to come across as weirdly obsessive either. These days, people often send texts to their love interests and significant others as a way to build emotional connections. So how can you make a text seem authentic and appropriate? A basic…
I’m Always Hoping for More When we are expecting more or comparing what we have to what we could have, it is possible that we will not completely appreciate what we have. An experiment conducted by the University of California indicated that participants who were exposed to a subliminal recall of money spent less time…
If you’ve ever met someone with a bold personality, you probably couldn’t help admiring them, at least a little. You knew it wasn’t liquid courage, either. Boldness was their default setting. So, were they born that way? Or can you (or anyone) learn how to be bold and confident? It’s a bit of both. Some…
That’s it! You’ve had it with this kid. And you know, until you talk to your son about his behavior and present his options, he’s likely just to keep on taking advantage of you. You just hope he treats his boss better than he treats his parents. Writing a letter to a disrespectful teenage son…
If you’ve been told living life for yourself is unforgivably selfish, you’re in the right place. It’s time we put that idea where it belongs (far away from you). There’s a reason you have a will of your own. Living your own life is something only you can do. Other people have their own lives…
Do you know how to tell if someone doesn’t have empathy for others? Maybe you’re thinking of someone right now. You’ve noticed how perceptive they are about other people. But empathy is about more than noticing things. People who lack empathy aren’t necessarily oblivious to what others are feeling. They can pick up on the…
An unexamined life THE UNEXAMINED PERIOD OF ONE’S LIFE Socrates, a Greek philosopher who lived around 399 BC, said, “The life that has not been investigated is not worth living. ” These statements ring just as true today as they did hundreds of years ago, if not more so. Why was it so difficult then,…
Dealing with social challenges So, what does this mean for us as we move forward in the wake of Covid-19? Therefore, we must examine the social and economic institutions that underpin how we live, work, and play for a lengthy period of time with a critical eye. It means that we must examine why there…
